Sometimes the person that is opposite to you, is your greatest teacher. Maybe they’re loud when you love to be soft. Maybe they want precision and structure, where you just want to flow and be free. Maybe you’re radiant and embracing and they’re withdrawn and contained. Maybe they think and form their words in their mind before they speak, and you’re filterless, with no gaps between thought and word.
You often find your opposite irritating, or intimidating, or too something, too opened, too closed, too big, too small or just too different. When you find yourself feeling that way pay attention, get curious. More often than not you’ll find that you’re in the midst of a person who holds some great lessons for you. If you feel like leaning out, lean in instead.
Loud and soft are on the same scale, they’re just at different degrees to each other. Likewise for containment and freedom, they’re exactly the same it is just that they’re on differing points on the dial. Loud and quiet are both the same, they’re just at different levels of volume. So you’re happy and comfortable at one end of the scale of anything and you don’t like to vary at all, you’ll find that you’re losing power because you have resistance to accessing the full scale.
Freedom and structure are good examples of this. Once structure has found its edges, it needs freedom to explore the space at its centre to discover all aspect of what’s possible, once it finds its centre it can begin to expand its edges. Without freedom it becomes stuck, stagnant and fixated. Freedom with no edges is completely diluted. It is neither this or that, it is everything and nothing, ever changing but too flowy to understand or connect to what exactly the changes have been. Awareness, consciousness and connection becomes lost in the air, there is nothing to hold onto.
Sit and chat with the person that triggers you because they’re your opposite. They hold amazing keys and codes that will open the full range of the scale to you, and maybe you’ll do the same for them. Explore, you will be delighted at what you find.
Thank you for your attention. In service to Divine Love, we are the Council Of Light.